"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Number closed a 10 ! need to date this one omg

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Yup Pyros you are right, she answers: 'Can't this week and i'm going to Ibiza next week'

I will not answer , ripped her number
Between the number close and the first date is where a huge amount of flaking occurs. This is where you need to take the fvcking situation by the horns and make her WANT to meet up with you. Fun and flirty text messages for a couple of weeks works very well for me. You need to amplify during that time, and THEN hit her up for a date (if she doesn't do it first).

Ever since I've started doing this, I've had a much higher rate of success between the number close and the first date. A bit of patience, flirting, and humour goes a long way when building rapport through texting.

More attractive women need more rapport because they have LOTS of options. You have to make yourself the best option instead of every other guy who's asked her for her number.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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