"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Number closed a 10 ! need to date this one omg

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Desdinova

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Yup Pyros you are right, she answers: 'Can't this week and i'm going to Ibiza next week'

I will not answer , ripped her number
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Between the number close and the first date is where a huge amount of flaking occurs. This is where you need to take the fvcking situation by the horns and make her WANT to meet up with you. Fun and flirty text messages for a couple of weeks works very well for me. You need to amplify during that time, and THEN hit her up for a date (if she doesn't do it first).

Ever since I've started doing this, I've had a much higher rate of success between the number close and the first date. A bit of patience, flirting, and humour goes a long way when building rapport through texting.

More attractive women need more rapport because they have LOTS of options. You have to make yourself the best option instead of every other guy who's asked her for her number.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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