"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Number close - now what?

Alittude

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Ok well I just number closed this chick who I originally talked to on myspace and now have been chatting to on msn. Anyway we discovered that we were both at the same place at new years and she actually saw me and my mates playing a game of soccer on a beach but we didn't recognise each other at the time. I then said we should catch up some time to talk about it and she said awesome. I then asked for the number and she took quite a long time to answer but then the number came out and we exchanged numbers.

Now I'm wondering what to do. I have no idea or experience what to do from here. How many days should I wait, call or text and when should I suggest meeting up?

Any advice on these subjects would be awesome.
By the way I usually don't waste my time online but this chick sounds cool and its quite hot so may as well give it a shot.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Deacon

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The 3 day rule never worked for me. I always texted a chick I # closed right after the night is over, but since you got this number over the internet it's a little different. I'd text her the day after you got her number and be like "hey this is _____ from myspace," she'll probably respond. I usually text back and forth for a little bit for that day, then the day after I usually call up the chick and ask her out. This doesn't have the highest of success rates for me, so I'd suggest not putting all your eggs in one basket. This approach has worked for me in the past though. It's all about balls.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Call the girl up tonight or tomorrow. Figure out first what you're gonna do then, make the plans with her. If you don't know what to do on the actuall date. Then, you got some studying to do!
 

Rata Blanca

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Call her soon, take her to a park, beach, etc
 

silverwolfalpha

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girls all have memory lapses. Also girls nowdays r soooo busy.
gotta txt/call asap. Set up plan A with time,date. Then B with alternate time/date. Then C. No way could she slip out then.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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L B

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Giver her a call when you are ready to set up the date. Have several options ready. Also remember that just because you have her number doesn't mean that she will automatically go out with you. Don't be too hurt if she gives you the run around.
 
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