"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Number close - now what?

Alittude

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Ok well I just number closed this chick who I originally talked to on myspace and now have been chatting to on msn. Anyway we discovered that we were both at the same place at new years and she actually saw me and my mates playing a game of soccer on a beach but we didn't recognise each other at the time. I then said we should catch up some time to talk about it and she said awesome. I then asked for the number and she took quite a long time to answer but then the number came out and we exchanged numbers.

Now I'm wondering what to do. I have no idea or experience what to do from here. How many days should I wait, call or text and when should I suggest meeting up?

Any advice on these subjects would be awesome.
By the way I usually don't waste my time online but this chick sounds cool and its quite hot so may as well give it a shot.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Deacon

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The 3 day rule never worked for me. I always texted a chick I # closed right after the night is over, but since you got this number over the internet it's a little different. I'd text her the day after you got her number and be like "hey this is _____ from myspace," she'll probably respond. I usually text back and forth for a little bit for that day, then the day after I usually call up the chick and ask her out. This doesn't have the highest of success rates for me, so I'd suggest not putting all your eggs in one basket. This approach has worked for me in the past though. It's all about balls.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Call the girl up tonight or tomorrow. Figure out first what you're gonna do then, make the plans with her. If you don't know what to do on the actuall date. Then, you got some studying to do!
 

Rata Blanca

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Call her soon, take her to a park, beach, etc
 

silverwolfalpha

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girls all have memory lapses. Also girls nowdays r soooo busy.
gotta txt/call asap. Set up plan A with time,date. Then B with alternate time/date. Then C. No way could she slip out then.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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L B

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Giver her a call when you are ready to set up the date. Have several options ready. Also remember that just because you have her number doesn't mean that she will automatically go out with you. Don't be too hurt if she gives you the run around.
 
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