"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A lot of it probably has to do with the fear of popping an obvious b0ner. After all, there are naked women present.

Besides, the male genitalia, while functional, are awkward. Imagine walking around the office with a monkey-wrench strapped to your belt. The form just looks ridiculous. At least animals have it retract up inside them when they aren't using it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I wouldn't be nude around someone who isn't comfortable with it simply because it's rude, but being nude around other guys is certainly not 'gay' or strange in any way. It's what people did for thousands of years. It's no more 'animalistic' than sex.
 

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Victorian sexual taboos are alive and well in the U.S. Men live in terror of being imagined gay, terrified they won't "measure up" to other males.

This fear over rides the desire to display TRUE masculine behavior of showing off the very thing that makes them MALE!
 

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I'm around gays, bi's, and trannies all the time. I spend most of my weekends in Manhattan. I have no problem with them at all. As long as they know to respect the boundaries with me, then I don't mind being around them. It's when they don't, that pisses me off. But the greater majority of times they respect the boundaries. These people are some of the coolest people. And let me tell you all one other thing: lots of these gay looking guys who are actually into women, pull lots of fine women. You can always walk into any club in the east or west village in Manhattan and see some faggy looking guy grinding or making out with some hot b*tch.
 

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^^^Have you and/or these men been naked around each other?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The logic (or lack there of) of some women (and a whole lot of guys) is really baffling. This is a false dilemma, it is simplistic and silly. I do not like seeing naked men. To suggest that the reason I do not like seeing the pole of another man is because it makes me feel inadequate is simply STUPID! I do not like cigarette smoke, does that also mean I am jealous or insecure that the smoker has a longer cigarette or can blow bigger smoke than I can? There is ZERO logic in this assumption.

Naked men are disgusting and I would rather not have that garbage in my face. The men who would disrobe in front of these other men are simply male attention wh0res. Screaming "hey look at me" by taking off ones clothes reeks of desperate 16 year old boy, who just got his drivers license.
 
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The logic (or lack there of) of some women (and a whole lot of guys) is really baffling. This is a false dilemma, it is simplistic and silly. I do not like seeing naked men. To suggest that reason I do not like seeing the pole of another man is because it makes me feel inadequate is simply STUPID! I do not like cigarette smoke, does that also mean I am jealous or insecure that the smoker has a longer cigarette or can blow bigger smoke than I can? There is ZERO logic in this assumption.
^^^^
This.
 
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