"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Notice no attention from women when I don’t sleep

captain55

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Anyone else notice this? When I get a good night sleep I have women constantly checking me out. When I go a few nights in a row barely sleeping and look runned down I get significantly less female attention. I also notice the chicks I date want to **** me less.

I know it seems unlikely but I’ve noticed this enough to where it’s not a coincidence. I mean it’s only sleep after all, but check out this article. Maybe I’m not crazy
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko

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My face/skin looks much better when I’m rested.
I've also noticed this. I can even see it in the mirror, if I haven't slept my face just looks tired or unhealthy.
I can't recall ever getting much of a positive reaction from women in those circumstances.
But then when I get some sleep, I look fresh and energetic. I agree it makes a big difference.
 

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When people are training and trying to raise their testostorne levels one of the things said along with diet and excersize is to get plenty of sleep.

Women notice when your T is higher. Sleep restores your T levels
 

marmel75

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For every 1 hour less than 8 you get your testosterone level decreases by 12%...basic circadian rhythms and biology in play. Since women have testosterone receptors in their noses makes perfect sense.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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