"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Not that you care.."

DJx420

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Okay fellas,

This ones been buggin me ALL DAY!! So I've sporatically hooked up with this girl over the past 2 years. This summer, we've been talking a little bit more as I'm now looking for a GF and she would fit the bill to a T...

But anyways, last night comes and I'm at a bar in NYC. Told this girl to come by. I'm outside with my boys and I see her and her 2 friends waiting online. I gave her a little wave and walked in.

Next thing I know her 2 friends are inside and she isn't. So I get a text message from her saying "Not that you care, but I was just puked on so I'm going home."

I'm wanting this to mean that she would like me to show a little bit more concern about her and start caring a little more, but then again that could be how I'm thinking just because I want to get serious with this girl...

Am I correct in this assumption or do you guys think I'm looking too much into it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJDamage

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She was looking for attention because her night was spoiled.

You should never respond to potential guilt-trip text messages nor paying attention to those who so bluntly seek attention.
 

Pathgen

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She was probably pissed and decided to take her anger out on you.
 
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