"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Not that you care.."

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DJx420

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Okay fellas,

This ones been buggin me ALL DAY!! So I've sporatically hooked up with this girl over the past 2 years. This summer, we've been talking a little bit more as I'm now looking for a GF and she would fit the bill to a T...

But anyways, last night comes and I'm at a bar in NYC. Told this girl to come by. I'm outside with my boys and I see her and her 2 friends waiting online. I gave her a little wave and walked in.

Next thing I know her 2 friends are inside and she isn't. So I get a text message from her saying "Not that you care, but I was just puked on so I'm going home."

I'm wanting this to mean that she would like me to show a little bit more concern about her and start caring a little more, but then again that could be how I'm thinking just because I want to get serious with this girl...

Am I correct in this assumption or do you guys think I'm looking too much into it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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DJDamage

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She was looking for attention because her night was spoiled.

You should never respond to potential guilt-trip text messages nor paying attention to those who so bluntly seek attention.
 
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Pathgen

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She was probably pissed and decided to take her anger out on you.
 
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