"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Not that you care.."

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DJx420

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Okay fellas,

This ones been buggin me ALL DAY!! So I've sporatically hooked up with this girl over the past 2 years. This summer, we've been talking a little bit more as I'm now looking for a GF and she would fit the bill to a T...

But anyways, last night comes and I'm at a bar in NYC. Told this girl to come by. I'm outside with my boys and I see her and her 2 friends waiting online. I gave her a little wave and walked in.

Next thing I know her 2 friends are inside and she isn't. So I get a text message from her saying "Not that you care, but I was just puked on so I'm going home."

I'm wanting this to mean that she would like me to show a little bit more concern about her and start caring a little more, but then again that could be how I'm thinking just because I want to get serious with this girl...

Am I correct in this assumption or do you guys think I'm looking too much into it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJDamage

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She was looking for attention because her night was spoiled.

You should never respond to potential guilt-trip text messages nor paying attention to those who so bluntly seek attention.
 
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Pathgen

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She was probably pissed and decided to take her anger out on you.
 
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