I have been noticing this girl that works at the local pizza place. I havent been in there since May and tonight I go in to get a pizza. She remembers me and asks me how im doing. I wanted to ask her to come to my apt. to have some beer tonight but she was working in the back. My friend told me to leave a note on her car telling her to call my number to come hang out tonight . I didnt want to do that cause it didnt seem right. She gets off at 10 tonight. Should I go back when she gets off or leave it alone which I told my friend I should do in the first place. Im sure i will have other chances to get her to my place.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
not sure what to do
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