"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have been noticing this girl that works at the local pizza place. I havent been in there since May and tonight I go in to get a pizza. She remembers me and asks me how im doing. I wanted to ask her to come to my apt. to have some beer tonight but she was working in the back. My friend told me to leave a note on her car telling her to call my number to come hang out tonight . I didnt want to do that cause it didnt seem right. She gets off at 10 tonight. Should I go back when she gets off or leave it alone which I told my friend I should do in the first place. Im sure i will have other chances to get her to my place.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you go back tonight you will seem like a needy AFC/stalker.. if you leave a note you will be a weirdo... next time you order pizza talk to her and invite her.
 

Ever onward

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She remembers me and asks me how im doing.
She obviously likes you, sometimes a girl waits on me and I think she likes me, but they never remember, so I know better.

Just do like the other guys said and talk to her next time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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