I have been noticing this girl that works at the local pizza place. I havent been in there since May and tonight I go in to get a pizza. She remembers me and asks me how im doing. I wanted to ask her to come to my apt. to have some beer tonight but she was working in the back. My friend told me to leave a note on her car telling her to call my number to come hang out tonight . I didnt want to do that cause it didnt seem right. She gets off at 10 tonight. Should I go back when she gets off or leave it alone which I told my friend I should do in the first place. Im sure i will have other chances to get her to my place.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
not sure what to do
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