"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not sure what direction to take career wise

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What is it you want to say in a PM that you cannot say in public?
 

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Your value is greater than minimum wage.

I'm not going to dirty up Smile's thread.
 

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Tenacity and Sylvester, you are both right!

If you two were to enter into this venture, you would fail. Confidence, patience, persistence, tenacity, and discipline (inner game) as well as a concrete modus operandi (outer-game) are mastered by the few. Accordingly, most start-ups will fail. Not a venture worth pursuing.

I don't know about Sylvester, but as mentioned, my career is B2B Sales/Commercial Finance and I've been in this field for the previous 8 years. I also have an MBA, so when it comes to business I know "a little something" about it. I did say that you indeed provided a good amount of information within this thread, but the OP doesn't have the experience nor the structure to know what to do with it.

Having confidence, patience, persistence, tenacity, and discipline, without a STRONG business structure (working capital, legal, accounting, market research, strategic partners/vendors, financiers, ROI analysis, strategic business planning and efficient experience/knowledge of the industry), is like having a car with a nice exterior but with no engine, transmission, brakes, A/C and axles. On the outside the vehicle looks like it's "ready to go," but you soon discover that it just doesn't have what it "truly needs" to go anywhere.

But I'm not faulting you guru, what you did was the standard on Investment, Business and Wealth forums and even conferences. It's the "rah rah" hyper positivity, touchy feely, motivational speechy messages designed to "fire up" those green newbies out there! The "go get em tiger" speech! It's fine, but inconjunction with that "go get em tiger" speech just make sure you train them on proper business structuring and planning so that "tiger" doesn't just START a business, but actually PRODUCES RECURRING REVENUE.
 

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Tenacity, thanks for the input.

I would say, on average, I'm solicited with business plans a couple dozen times a month. Some of these plans are prospectuses for bona fide public offerings, not only delineating company modus operandi; but including certified existing and pro-forma financials, liquidation strategies, debt-to-income/PE ratios at aftermarket share pricing, LTD cost-efficiency book value, etc.

At the end of the solicitation, I take the prospectus and throw it across the room. I ask only one question of the solicitor: Why should I choose you?

I have entered into agreements with the most egregious-looking prospectuses, and have done quite well. Why? Because, while careful planning/solid infrastructure is ubiquitious in my arena, it is only the cussed bloody-minded, ramrod-backed type of damnfool entrepreneur that would rather break than sway with the breeze that will succeed.

I am Smile's infrastructure. The problem is elsewhere.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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guru1000 said:
Tenacity and Sylvester, you are both right!

If you two were to enter into this venture, you would both fail.
No. I would not. I would succeed because I would have had the foresight to learn and understand the basic fundamentals of my business before starting up. I shall prove it too.
 
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