"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not sure what direction to take career wise

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is it you want to say in a PM that you cannot say in public?
 

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Your value is greater than minimum wage.

I'm not going to dirty up Smile's thread.
 

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Tenacity and Sylvester, you are both right!

If you two were to enter into this venture, you would fail. Confidence, patience, persistence, tenacity, and discipline (inner game) as well as a concrete modus operandi (outer-game) are mastered by the few. Accordingly, most start-ups will fail. Not a venture worth pursuing.

I don't know about Sylvester, but as mentioned, my career is B2B Sales/Commercial Finance and I've been in this field for the previous 8 years. I also have an MBA, so when it comes to business I know "a little something" about it. I did say that you indeed provided a good amount of information within this thread, but the OP doesn't have the experience nor the structure to know what to do with it.

Having confidence, patience, persistence, tenacity, and discipline, without a STRONG business structure (working capital, legal, accounting, market research, strategic partners/vendors, financiers, ROI analysis, strategic business planning and efficient experience/knowledge of the industry), is like having a car with a nice exterior but with no engine, transmission, brakes, A/C and axles. On the outside the vehicle looks like it's "ready to go," but you soon discover that it just doesn't have what it "truly needs" to go anywhere.

But I'm not faulting you guru, what you did was the standard on Investment, Business and Wealth forums and even conferences. It's the "rah rah" hyper positivity, touchy feely, motivational speechy messages designed to "fire up" those green newbies out there! The "go get em tiger" speech! It's fine, but inconjunction with that "go get em tiger" speech just make sure you train them on proper business structuring and planning so that "tiger" doesn't just START a business, but actually PRODUCES RECURRING REVENUE.
 

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Tenacity, thanks for the input.

I would say, on average, I'm solicited with business plans a couple dozen times a month. Some of these plans are prospectuses for bona fide public offerings, not only delineating company modus operandi; but including certified existing and pro-forma financials, liquidation strategies, debt-to-income/PE ratios at aftermarket share pricing, LTD cost-efficiency book value, etc.

At the end of the solicitation, I take the prospectus and throw it across the room. I ask only one question of the solicitor: Why should I choose you?

I have entered into agreements with the most egregious-looking prospectuses, and have done quite well. Why? Because, while careful planning/solid infrastructure is ubiquitious in my arena, it is only the cussed bloody-minded, ramrod-backed type of damnfool entrepreneur that would rather break than sway with the breeze that will succeed.

I am Smile's infrastructure. The problem is elsewhere.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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guru1000 said:
Tenacity and Sylvester, you are both right!

If you two were to enter into this venture, you would both fail.
No. I would not. I would succeed because I would have had the foresight to learn and understand the basic fundamentals of my business before starting up. I shall prove it too.
 
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