“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Not sure if she's ready for me to come over just yet..

Whydomyeyeshurt

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Hey dudes. I've gone out with this woman a few times, so far just dates that are out and about and neither at our respective places. We both have roommates which can be a factor potentially in spending the night together.

We're trying to make plans for tomorrow and I suggested we eat some dinner and stay in which she said sounds nice but now she's sort of second-guessing herself. She texted that she's not sure if she's ready for me to come over just yet.

Do I respond back to the text or do I just let her think and make a decision? I could invite her my place my roommates don't give a ****.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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"Its just dinner babe. That´s it". or whatever you have to say to get your foot in the door. Once there, escalate.
 
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