"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not sure if she's ready for me to come over just yet..

Whydomyeyeshurt

Whydomyeyeshurt

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Hey dudes. I've gone out with this woman a few times, so far just dates that are out and about and neither at our respective places. We both have roommates which can be a factor potentially in spending the night together.

We're trying to make plans for tomorrow and I suggested we eat some dinner and stay in which she said sounds nice but now she's sort of second-guessing herself. She texted that she's not sure if she's ready for me to come over just yet.

Do I respond back to the text or do I just let her think and make a decision? I could invite her my place my roommates don't give a ****.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Its just dinner babe. That´s it". or whatever you have to say to get your foot in the door. Once there, escalate.
 
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