"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was working with this on HB9 for a few hours. She kept talking about this one guy. I said idk who he is, and here is what she said.

"He is my boyfriend...ish, not really acutally, were just kind of, hes nice..."

We get along really well and I get all the signs like kino and such, but do girls do stuff like that to friends, b/c I really felt we connected. She even requested time working with me, but that could be as friends. I'm fine if she wants to be friends, I just dont want to be wasting my time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'd be tempted to keep her on the backburner. Seems like she's into this other guy. Other than that, make her think that you're better!
 
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Thnaks for the reply, thats what I was thinking of doing.
 
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navyseal2101 said:
I just dont want to be wasting my time.
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Be a man then. Get her alone and escalate.
 
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I could do that seeing she showed me where she lived and what room shes in. She also said I should take her out sometime, but I wasn't sure if that meant as friends or what.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well actually i am in a similar situation as you are..and donno how to react but till now.i hav tried to keep my mind from hinkin that my chances are no good,...instead i have tried to increase my options to minimize desperation..hope this helps..ill also be open to anyideas you may develop ..
 
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Think about it this way. If she does have a boyfriend does it really matter? She deffianately likes this other guy, but it sounds like she likes you as well. If you play your game tight then the other guy should be irrelivant because your better than him. Forget she mentioned him and game her like you would any other.
 
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Thats what I'm doing with a girl right now. She has a boyfriend, but I'm way better then her boyfriend. It is now my job to demonstrate this.

Although she still has to qualify for me...... quite the paradox actually....
 
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Thanks for the replies. I definatly know I have a shot, just didnt know if I should go for it. Ill go with you guys and make her forget her BF.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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