"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was working with this on HB9 for a few hours. She kept talking about this one guy. I said idk who he is, and here is what she said.

"He is my boyfriend...ish, not really acutally, were just kind of, hes nice..."

We get along really well and I get all the signs like kino and such, but do girls do stuff like that to friends, b/c I really felt we connected. She even requested time working with me, but that could be as friends. I'm fine if she wants to be friends, I just dont want to be wasting my time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'd be tempted to keep her on the backburner. Seems like she's into this other guy. Other than that, make her think that you're better!
 
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Thnaks for the reply, thats what I was thinking of doing.
 
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navyseal2101 said:
I just dont want to be wasting my time.
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Be a man then. Get her alone and escalate.
 
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I could do that seeing she showed me where she lived and what room shes in. She also said I should take her out sometime, but I wasn't sure if that meant as friends or what.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well actually i am in a similar situation as you are..and donno how to react but till now.i hav tried to keep my mind from hinkin that my chances are no good,...instead i have tried to increase my options to minimize desperation..hope this helps..ill also be open to anyideas you may develop ..
 
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Think about it this way. If she does have a boyfriend does it really matter? She deffianately likes this other guy, but it sounds like she likes you as well. If you play your game tight then the other guy should be irrelivant because your better than him. Forget she mentioned him and game her like you would any other.
 
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Thats what I'm doing with a girl right now. She has a boyfriend, but I'm way better then her boyfriend. It is now my job to demonstrate this.

Although she still has to qualify for me...... quite the paradox actually....
 
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Thanks for the replies. I definatly know I have a shot, just didnt know if I should go for it. Ill go with you guys and make her forget her BF.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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