"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I was working with this on HB9 for a few hours. She kept talking about this one guy. I said idk who he is, and here is what she said.

"He is my boyfriend...ish, not really acutally, were just kind of, hes nice..."

We get along really well and I get all the signs like kino and such, but do girls do stuff like that to friends, b/c I really felt we connected. She even requested time working with me, but that could be as friends. I'm fine if she wants to be friends, I just dont want to be wasting my time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd be tempted to keep her on the backburner. Seems like she's into this other guy. Other than that, make her think that you're better!
 
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Thnaks for the reply, thats what I was thinking of doing.
 
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navyseal2101 said:
I just dont want to be wasting my time.
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Be a man then. Get her alone and escalate.
 
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I could do that seeing she showed me where she lived and what room shes in. She also said I should take her out sometime, but I wasn't sure if that meant as friends or what.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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well actually i am in a similar situation as you are..and donno how to react but till now.i hav tried to keep my mind from hinkin that my chances are no good,...instead i have tried to increase my options to minimize desperation..hope this helps..ill also be open to anyideas you may develop ..
 
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Think about it this way. If she does have a boyfriend does it really matter? She deffianately likes this other guy, but it sounds like she likes you as well. If you play your game tight then the other guy should be irrelivant because your better than him. Forget she mentioned him and game her like you would any other.
 
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Thats what I'm doing with a girl right now. She has a boyfriend, but I'm way better then her boyfriend. It is now my job to demonstrate this.

Although she still has to qualify for me...... quite the paradox actually....
 
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Thanks for the replies. I definatly know I have a shot, just didnt know if I should go for it. Ill go with you guys and make her forget her BF.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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