"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not sure if I should contact her?

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I met a girl this weekend at a conference. She is very nice and I thought we really clicked. We spent hours talking. The big problem: We live 7 hours apart. Plus, pending certain schedules, we might not see each other at these conferences anymore.

Before I left, she handed me her email, aim and phone number. Should I really contact her? I like her, but I'm concerned that I'll never see her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vikman said:
I met a girl this weekend at a conference. She is very nice and I thought we really clicked. We spent hours talking. The big problem: We live 7 hours apart. Plus, pending certain schedules, we might not see each other at these conferences anymore.

Before I left, she handed me her email, aim and phone number. Should I really contact her? I like her, but I'm concerned that I'll never see her.
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What do you have to be concerned about? If you contact her you may end up seing her, and if not no big deal.
 
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It is what you make it.

You're in control of wether YOU see her, not some mystical force.

If nothing comes from it, you've got a pivot 7 hours away, and it's practice in talking to women.

You can never have enough contacts.
 
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She lives seven hours away. Any time you spend talking to her on the phone or writing an email is time used for WHAT reason? That time spent you could've been using to meet and talk to local women who you can date regularly.

Also, consider what your goal would be in communicating with her? All that time you'll spend on contacting her will lead to... WHAT? Seeing her ONCE in a while? In the meantime, she'll be crossing paths with local guys who'd be more than happy to get with her, and she sure isn't going to sit home alone waiting for some guy who she hardly ever sees who lives seven hours away. So what's the point? You wanna get involved with someone who you'll see once in a while, maybe, when you could've met someone locally? It's just not practical.
 
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