"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not sure if I should contact her?

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I met a girl this weekend at a conference. She is very nice and I thought we really clicked. We spent hours talking. The big problem: We live 7 hours apart. Plus, pending certain schedules, we might not see each other at these conferences anymore.

Before I left, she handed me her email, aim and phone number. Should I really contact her? I like her, but I'm concerned that I'll never see her.
 

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Vikman said:
I met a girl this weekend at a conference. She is very nice and I thought we really clicked. We spent hours talking. The big problem: We live 7 hours apart. Plus, pending certain schedules, we might not see each other at these conferences anymore.

Before I left, she handed me her email, aim and phone number. Should I really contact her? I like her, but I'm concerned that I'll never see her.
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What do you have to be concerned about? If you contact her you may end up seing her, and if not no big deal.
 
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It is what you make it.

You're in control of wether YOU see her, not some mystical force.

If nothing comes from it, you've got a pivot 7 hours away, and it's practice in talking to women.

You can never have enough contacts.
 
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She lives seven hours away. Any time you spend talking to her on the phone or writing an email is time used for WHAT reason? That time spent you could've been using to meet and talk to local women who you can date regularly.

Also, consider what your goal would be in communicating with her? All that time you'll spend on contacting her will lead to... WHAT? Seeing her ONCE in a while? In the meantime, she'll be crossing paths with local guys who'd be more than happy to get with her, and she sure isn't going to sit home alone waiting for some guy who she hardly ever sees who lives seven hours away. So what's the point? You wanna get involved with someone who you'll see once in a while, maybe, when you could've met someone locally? It's just not practical.
 
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