Pierce.Manhammer
Master Don Juan
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One thing I have noticed is that younger men and women - those who grew up with social media - are largely living lives of dissatisfaction. They seem to suffer from a severe lack of self-esteem and a debilitating "pick me" attitude. When all they see is all these people on Tiktok and Instalonde or this gram and whatever living this seemingly impossible life, they feel diminished.
Even here, where forum members are definitely more enlightened than the populace as a whole, there seems to be an undercurrent of "who is hotter, this brunette" guys seem to want a consensus on what they should consider attractive - this seemingly stems from the need for approval.
Young(er) men of SS: make your own way, don't care what others may think of you, never compare yourself or allow yourself to be told what you should want from life. The grass is always greener on the other side: BECAUSE ITS ASTROTURF!
Find your thing, get hobbies, get passionate AND STOP FROM POSTING YOUR WHOLE LIFE STORY ON SOCIAL MEDIA; it's not necessary - you want to be different? Don't be like all the cookie-cutter people in your age group - stay out of the SM trap - trust me, you'll be noticed more as a non-conformist than your pic of you eating a donut will on Insta.
Even here, where forum members are definitely more enlightened than the populace as a whole, there seems to be an undercurrent of "who is hotter, this brunette" guys seem to want a consensus on what they should consider attractive - this seemingly stems from the need for approval.
Young(er) men of SS: make your own way, don't care what others may think of you, never compare yourself or allow yourself to be told what you should want from life. The grass is always greener on the other side: BECAUSE ITS ASTROTURF!
Find your thing, get hobbies, get passionate AND STOP FROM POSTING YOUR WHOLE LIFE STORY ON SOCIAL MEDIA; it's not necessary - you want to be different? Don't be like all the cookie-cutter people in your age group - stay out of the SM trap - trust me, you'll be noticed more as a non-conformist than your pic of you eating a donut will on Insta.