"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yo yo yo! Got chatting with chick last night online and eventually led to phone sex. Here's my problem we said we will meet in two weeks cause I can't til then but I'm not sure whether to call her today or not. The problem is she has a lot of contacts business wise which could help me in getting a business up and running but I don't wanna b first to make contact.

Wat u reckon, she is kinda intelligent and is into self improvement and I have a feeling based on some things she said tat she might b familiar with some strategies on here.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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marmel75

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Yo yo yo! Got chatting with chick last night online and eventually led to phone sex. Here's my problem we said we will meet in two weeks cause I can't til then but I'm not sure whether to call her today or not. The problem is she has a lot of contacts business wise which could help me in getting a business up and running but I don't wanna b first to make contact.

Wat u reckon, she is kinda intelligent and is into self improvement and I have a feeling based on some things she said tat she might b familiar with some strategies on here.

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Lol...why would she want to meet when she got everything she wanted from home? Sorry bro, 95% chance its not going to happen.
 

GoodOne123

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So a girl meets a guy online, who she never met in person, probably doesn't know who it really is, and has phone sex straight after. She doesn't really seem like the type you'd want to invest in/start getting serious with. She is more for fun.

If it was you who said to meet up 2 weeks later, then why are you stressing? Text her in 1-2 weeks time to set a date. You can have some small talk until then but it's not necessary if she's genuinely interested in seeing you.

If she said to do it in 2 weeks time, wait for her to message you, but assume she isn't interested and move on in the meantime.
 

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She just messaged me asking y i didnt text her this morning
 

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She just messaged me asking y i didnt text her this morning

Respond later this afternoon or tomorrow. You don't always have to do it, but you gotta have some delay tactics in there to keep their interest up. She'll probably text again in 2-4 hrs.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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marmel75

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2 weeks is way too long for a woman you don't know to wait when she is being bombarded with tons of messages daily...

I'd advise to figure out a way to make it happen sooner. What's the issue? I find it hard to believe you don't have an hour to meet up in the next two weeks if you wanted to unless you are not in the area...

Strike while the iron is hot. Time is of the essence. Attraction has an expiration date.
 

RangerMIke

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First, phone sex is bullsh!t.

Second, if you think she might be of value to you in business... then keep it business.

Third, no need to be in contact with her until your date. I wouldn't commit to anything 2 weeks out, unless it was something like a event on a particular night.
 
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