"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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susss

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Yo yo yo! Got chatting with chick last night online and eventually led to phone sex. Here's my problem we said we will meet in two weeks cause I can't til then but I'm not sure whether to call her today or not. The problem is she has a lot of contacts business wise which could help me in getting a business up and running but I don't wanna b first to make contact.

Wat u reckon, she is kinda intelligent and is into self improvement and I have a feeling based on some things she said tat she might b familiar with some strategies on here.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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marmel75

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Yo yo yo! Got chatting with chick last night online and eventually led to phone sex. Here's my problem we said we will meet in two weeks cause I can't til then but I'm not sure whether to call her today or not. The problem is she has a lot of contacts business wise which could help me in getting a business up and running but I don't wanna b first to make contact.

Wat u reckon, she is kinda intelligent and is into self improvement and I have a feeling based on some things she said tat she might b familiar with some strategies on here.

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Lol...why would she want to meet when she got everything she wanted from home? Sorry bro, 95% chance its not going to happen.
 

GoodOne123

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So a girl meets a guy online, who she never met in person, probably doesn't know who it really is, and has phone sex straight after. She doesn't really seem like the type you'd want to invest in/start getting serious with. She is more for fun.

If it was you who said to meet up 2 weeks later, then why are you stressing? Text her in 1-2 weeks time to set a date. You can have some small talk until then but it's not necessary if she's genuinely interested in seeing you.

If she said to do it in 2 weeks time, wait for her to message you, but assume she isn't interested and move on in the meantime.
 

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She just messaged me asking y i didnt text her this morning
 

mrgoodstuff

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She just messaged me asking y i didnt text her this morning

Respond later this afternoon or tomorrow. You don't always have to do it, but you gotta have some delay tactics in there to keep their interest up. She'll probably text again in 2-4 hrs.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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marmel75

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2 weeks is way too long for a woman you don't know to wait when she is being bombarded with tons of messages daily...

I'd advise to figure out a way to make it happen sooner. What's the issue? I find it hard to believe you don't have an hour to meet up in the next two weeks if you wanted to unless you are not in the area...

Strike while the iron is hot. Time is of the essence. Attraction has an expiration date.
 

RangerMIke

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First, phone sex is bullsh!t.

Second, if you think she might be of value to you in business... then keep it business.

Third, no need to be in contact with her until your date. I wouldn't commit to anything 2 weeks out, unless it was something like a event on a particular night.
 
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