"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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susss

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Yo yo yo! Got chatting with chick last night online and eventually led to phone sex. Here's my problem we said we will meet in two weeks cause I can't til then but I'm not sure whether to call her today or not. The problem is she has a lot of contacts business wise which could help me in getting a business up and running but I don't wanna b first to make contact.

Wat u reckon, she is kinda intelligent and is into self improvement and I have a feeling based on some things she said tat she might b familiar with some strategies on here.

Opinions???
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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marmel75

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Yo yo yo! Got chatting with chick last night online and eventually led to phone sex. Here's my problem we said we will meet in two weeks cause I can't til then but I'm not sure whether to call her today or not. The problem is she has a lot of contacts business wise which could help me in getting a business up and running but I don't wanna b first to make contact.

Wat u reckon, she is kinda intelligent and is into self improvement and I have a feeling based on some things she said tat she might b familiar with some strategies on here.

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Lol...why would she want to meet when she got everything she wanted from home? Sorry bro, 95% chance its not going to happen.
 

GoodOne123

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So a girl meets a guy online, who she never met in person, probably doesn't know who it really is, and has phone sex straight after. She doesn't really seem like the type you'd want to invest in/start getting serious with. She is more for fun.

If it was you who said to meet up 2 weeks later, then why are you stressing? Text her in 1-2 weeks time to set a date. You can have some small talk until then but it's not necessary if she's genuinely interested in seeing you.

If she said to do it in 2 weeks time, wait for her to message you, but assume she isn't interested and move on in the meantime.
 

susss

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She just messaged me asking y i didnt text her this morning
 

mrgoodstuff

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She just messaged me asking y i didnt text her this morning

Respond later this afternoon or tomorrow. You don't always have to do it, but you gotta have some delay tactics in there to keep their interest up. She'll probably text again in 2-4 hrs.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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2 weeks is way too long for a woman you don't know to wait when she is being bombarded with tons of messages daily...

I'd advise to figure out a way to make it happen sooner. What's the issue? I find it hard to believe you don't have an hour to meet up in the next two weeks if you wanted to unless you are not in the area...

Strike while the iron is hot. Time is of the essence. Attraction has an expiration date.
 

RangerMIke

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First, phone sex is bullsh!t.

Second, if you think she might be of value to you in business... then keep it business.

Third, no need to be in contact with her until your date. I wouldn't commit to anything 2 weeks out, unless it was something like a event on a particular night.
 
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