"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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not returning sms, I hate this!!1

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To cut the story short:
I was out with my friend and I see this cute girl and I start dancing with her. I was dancing with her she was smiling, yada, yada, not complaining, I leave, come back in 10 min, some guy is trying to dance with her, I step between them and she doesn't mind that I got there instead of that other guy...
I ask her name and tell her to guess mine. She guessed it from first try.
Now I go for number close. Let's exchange numbers, I say. She asks me how old I am. I say 22. She says that I'm a little young since she's 25. I say so what, that isn't a problem (and it isn't. Maybe I am more mature, but I can talk with older girls, there is no playing games and all that sh1t younger chicks pull on you). Well she hesitated and told me to give her my number. I take her phone and call my own cell (so we both have numbers). In the end she shakes my hand and tells me "I am glad we met", smiling and all.
Now I text massage her next morning (sunday), and get no answer. It was a stupid message, but still...
I text message everyone, even my best friends, cause I hate talking on the phone.

My question is, should I send her a text on wednesday, but she can not answer. Should I call her, and from my home so she doesn't know who's calling her so she'll pick up. Or thinking about it, if she doesn't want to pick up my number, why call her from another number. Pointless.
I think the main problem is in that she thinks I'm too young for her (I'm 4th year college. She finished college and is already working. But from the maturity point of view, I think we're at the same level.)
Anyway, if there isn't any reply I next her a s s.
What would you do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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napoleon said:
To cut the story short:
I was out with my friend and I see this cute girl and I start dancing with her. I was dancing with her she was smiling, yada, yada, not complaining, I leave, come back in 10 min, some guy is trying to dance with her, I step between them and she doesn't mind that I got there instead of that other guy...
I ask her name and tell her to guess mine. She guessed it from first try.
Now I go for number close. Let's exchange numbers, I say. She asks me how old I am. I say 22. She says that I'm a little young since she's 25. I say so what, that isn't a problem (and it isn't. Maybe I am more mature, but I can talk with older girls, there is no playing games and all that sh1t younger chicks pull on you). Well she hesitated and told me to give her my number. I take her phone and call my own cell (so we both have numbers). In the end she shakes my hand and tells me "I am glad we met", smiling and all.
Now I text massage her next morning (sunday), and get no answer. It was a stupid message, but still...
I text message everyone, even my best friends, cause I hate talking on the phone.

My question is, should I send her a text on wednesday, but she can not answer. Should I call her, and from my home so she doesn't know who's calling her so she'll pick up. Or thinking about it, if she doesn't want to pick up my number, why call her from another number. Pointless.
I think the main problem is in that she thinks I'm too young for her (I'm 4th year college. She finished college and is already working. But from the maturity point of view, I think we're at the same level.)
Anyway, if there isn't any reply I next her a s s.
What would you do?
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Texting is lame-o. Stop it! I don't care if you don't "like" calling, just call her and set something up and get off the phone.

And you are NOT too young for her... three years? Wow, she's nitpicking, or testing you.
 
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You got it! Should I call her from my cell or home?

PS.I don't know why, but it seems to me that every "older" girl than me is more receptive of my flirting, CF... Maybe the older guys are wussies, too indirect.

PPS. I dont "like" calling cause I like watching the ppl I talk to.
 
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...PPS. I dont "like" calling cause I like watching the ppl I talk to.
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Do you really need to watch her if you are just asking to meet her someplace?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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On this other thread, similar problem, one of the answers was:




Get smart,

Text her again, but only once more. Raise your game, something funny using Push Pull. Like.....

"It was nice to meet a pretty face the other night, but can it hold an interesting conversation? If the answer is no then don't reply".

This works great for most cases. Basically she’s telling you she’s dumb by not replying.... so in essence she has to.

Your also telling her that your smart and you only want people aroud you who are smart.

Your also telling her her looks are not important.

Get smart....


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