"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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not returning sms, I hate this!!1

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To cut the story short:
I was out with my friend and I see this cute girl and I start dancing with her. I was dancing with her she was smiling, yada, yada, not complaining, I leave, come back in 10 min, some guy is trying to dance with her, I step between them and she doesn't mind that I got there instead of that other guy...
I ask her name and tell her to guess mine. She guessed it from first try.
Now I go for number close. Let's exchange numbers, I say. She asks me how old I am. I say 22. She says that I'm a little young since she's 25. I say so what, that isn't a problem (and it isn't. Maybe I am more mature, but I can talk with older girls, there is no playing games and all that sh1t younger chicks pull on you). Well she hesitated and told me to give her my number. I take her phone and call my own cell (so we both have numbers). In the end she shakes my hand and tells me "I am glad we met", smiling and all.
Now I text massage her next morning (sunday), and get no answer. It was a stupid message, but still...
I text message everyone, even my best friends, cause I hate talking on the phone.

My question is, should I send her a text on wednesday, but she can not answer. Should I call her, and from my home so she doesn't know who's calling her so she'll pick up. Or thinking about it, if she doesn't want to pick up my number, why call her from another number. Pointless.
I think the main problem is in that she thinks I'm too young for her (I'm 4th year college. She finished college and is already working. But from the maturity point of view, I think we're at the same level.)
Anyway, if there isn't any reply I next her a s s.
What would you do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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napoleon said:
To cut the story short:
I was out with my friend and I see this cute girl and I start dancing with her. I was dancing with her she was smiling, yada, yada, not complaining, I leave, come back in 10 min, some guy is trying to dance with her, I step between them and she doesn't mind that I got there instead of that other guy...
I ask her name and tell her to guess mine. She guessed it from first try.
Now I go for number close. Let's exchange numbers, I say. She asks me how old I am. I say 22. She says that I'm a little young since she's 25. I say so what, that isn't a problem (and it isn't. Maybe I am more mature, but I can talk with older girls, there is no playing games and all that sh1t younger chicks pull on you). Well she hesitated and told me to give her my number. I take her phone and call my own cell (so we both have numbers). In the end she shakes my hand and tells me "I am glad we met", smiling and all.
Now I text massage her next morning (sunday), and get no answer. It was a stupid message, but still...
I text message everyone, even my best friends, cause I hate talking on the phone.

My question is, should I send her a text on wednesday, but she can not answer. Should I call her, and from my home so she doesn't know who's calling her so she'll pick up. Or thinking about it, if she doesn't want to pick up my number, why call her from another number. Pointless.
I think the main problem is in that she thinks I'm too young for her (I'm 4th year college. She finished college and is already working. But from the maturity point of view, I think we're at the same level.)
Anyway, if there isn't any reply I next her a s s.
What would you do?
Texting is lame-o. Stop it! I don't care if you don't "like" calling, just call her and set something up and get off the phone.

And you are NOT too young for her... three years? Wow, she's nitpicking, or testing you.
 

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You got it! Should I call her from my cell or home?

PS.I don't know why, but it seems to me that every "older" girl than me is more receptive of my flirting, CF... Maybe the older guys are wussies, too indirect.

PPS. I dont "like" calling cause I like watching the ppl I talk to.
 

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napoleon said:
...PPS. I dont "like" calling cause I like watching the ppl I talk to.
Do you really need to watch her if you are just asking to meet her someplace?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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On this other thread, similar problem, one of the answers was:




Get smart,

Text her again, but only once more. Raise your game, something funny using Push Pull. Like.....

"It was nice to meet a pretty face the other night, but can it hold an interesting conversation? If the answer is no then don't reply".

This works great for most cases. Basically she’s telling you she’s dumb by not replying.... so in essence she has to.

Your also telling her that your smart and you only want people aroud you who are smart.

Your also telling her her looks are not important.

Get smart....


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