"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not quite sure how to play this one...

saturos

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Theres a girl who sits by me in one of my classes, i'd put her at an 8 or 9.
The difference between her and the average good looking girl is that, shes not slutty, stupid (shes actually really smart...), attention *****y, or anything really that you would typically see on a hot girl.
I have no problem talking to other girls but she's just like...not like them.
I failed hard at describing this, but i don't really know how to play it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CarbonFX

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I had this exact same situation last year, I was just acting wild (in a good way) making funny and ****y comments on everything get them to notice you, ask for help with school work, once you break the ice it will be easier. Once you got them hooked give her a little silent treatment it works wonders, be unpredictable. That's the best I can describe it.

I was the loudest in the class, always teased everyone <- I think that's key make sure it's not just her she might perceive you as an a55hole, be an equal opportunity jerk so to speak, I even made teachers laugh. In the end that worked for me. I quickly got a little fan base of people that always wanted to talk to me. There were those odd moments when I'd be burning to say something but just kept my mouth shut, so yeah some moments like that will still remain.
 

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It's called oneitus :p

As soon as you say "she's not like them" it can screw up your 'game'. But hey it means you like the girl so go for it! It's not really a 'problem' it's normal.
 

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Main thing to keep yourself calm, and feign that you are uninterested.
 

saturos

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SinJester said:
It's called oneitus :p

As soon as you say "she's not like them" it can screw up your 'game'. But hey it means you like the girl so go for it! It's not really a 'problem' it's normal.
Oh i'm not falling for her, but its always nice to have options or friends.
Do you know what i'm talking about though? Most hot girls are slutty, whory, or really sociable.
She's just not. Not like i'm percieving her as different, she simply is. It makes it a whole lot harder to talk to her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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