"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Not quite sure how to play this one...

S

saturos

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 25, 2008
Messages
194
Reaction score
4
Theres a girl who sits by me in one of my classes, i'd put her at an 8 or 9.
The difference between her and the average good looking girl is that, shes not slutty, stupid (shes actually really smart...), attention *****y, or anything really that you would typically see on a hot girl.
I have no problem talking to other girls but she's just like...not like them.
I failed hard at describing this, but i don't really know how to play it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

C

CarbonFX

Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2008
Messages
66
Reaction score
2
I had this exact same situation last year, I was just acting wild (in a good way) making funny and ****y comments on everything get them to notice you, ask for help with school work, once you break the ice it will be easier. Once you got them hooked give her a little silent treatment it works wonders, be unpredictable. That's the best I can describe it.

I was the loudest in the class, always teased everyone <- I think that's key make sure it's not just her she might perceive you as an a55hole, be an equal opportunity jerk so to speak, I even made teachers laugh. In the end that worked for me. I quickly got a little fan base of people that always wanted to talk to me. There were those odd moments when I'd be burning to say something but just kept my mouth shut, so yeah some moments like that will still remain.
 
S

SinJester

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2007
Messages
1,226
Reaction score
44
Location
Australia
It's called oneitus :p

As soon as you say "she's not like them" it can screw up your 'game'. But hey it means you like the girl so go for it! It's not really a 'problem' it's normal.
 
N

Nivre

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 15, 2008
Messages
25
Reaction score
0
Location
Singapore
Main thing to keep yourself calm, and feign that you are uninterested.
 
S

saturos

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 25, 2008
Messages
194
Reaction score
4
SinJester said:
It's called oneitus :p

As soon as you say "she's not like them" it can screw up your 'game'. But hey it means you like the girl so go for it! It's not really a 'problem' it's normal.
Click to expand...
Oh i'm not falling for her, but its always nice to have options or friends.
Do you know what i'm talking about though? Most hot girls are slutty, whory, or really sociable.
She's just not. Not like i'm percieving her as different, she simply is. It makes it a whole lot harder to talk to her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top