"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not only are the French cowards, they're lazy too!

wootapotky

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mexican_player2 said:
totally true


Money does make you happy

if you like to travel, you need money
if you like going to the gym... you need money
if you like gettin girls...you need money (at least to aford yourself)

etc etc

if you are poor you cant do nothing but work, if you are sick you cant get no a nice hospital , you cant eat good food, etc
And yet I've personally met many many people that had no money that were always happy. Sure they had tough times but they didn't let it get them down. They always had a smile on their face. Life is about attitude not money. What's that quote where it says that 90% of life is your attitude and 10% is what happens to you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Research suggests that happiness and money are almost completely separate concepts, i.e., if you're unhappy, money won't make you happy, and if you're happy, no money won't make you unhappy. They're unrelated for the most part.
 

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I'd be more happy if I had $100, than if I didn't have $100.
 

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wootapotky, that study outlined in the article has a very fundamental flaw (other than it's dogmatism).

The small island state of Vanuatu is situated in the middle of the South Pacific Ocean, and has a population of 209,000. Its economy is built around small-scale agriculture and tourism.
What tourists do you think are putting money into their economy? If capitalistic countries stopped visiting Vanuatu because they stop being as capitalistic, Vanuatu's quality of life would plummet.
 

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spider_007 said:
I bolive same thing goes on in Italy and Germany .. they almost slaped him .. i work 55 hour weeks on a decen job, getting payed .. still can't aford to live comforatably.
Should I make the presumption that this job doesn't include a mastery of the English language? :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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