"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not only are the French cowards, they're lazy too!

wootapotky

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mexican_player2 said:
totally true


Money does make you happy

if you like to travel, you need money
if you like going to the gym... you need money
if you like gettin girls...you need money (at least to aford yourself)

etc etc

if you are poor you cant do nothing but work, if you are sick you cant get no a nice hospital , you cant eat good food, etc
And yet I've personally met many many people that had no money that were always happy. Sure they had tough times but they didn't let it get them down. They always had a smile on their face. Life is about attitude not money. What's that quote where it says that 90% of life is your attitude and 10% is what happens to you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Research suggests that happiness and money are almost completely separate concepts, i.e., if you're unhappy, money won't make you happy, and if you're happy, no money won't make you unhappy. They're unrelated for the most part.
 

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I'd be more happy if I had $100, than if I didn't have $100.
 

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wootapotky, that study outlined in the article has a very fundamental flaw (other than it's dogmatism).

The small island state of Vanuatu is situated in the middle of the South Pacific Ocean, and has a population of 209,000. Its economy is built around small-scale agriculture and tourism.
What tourists do you think are putting money into their economy? If capitalistic countries stopped visiting Vanuatu because they stop being as capitalistic, Vanuatu's quality of life would plummet.
 

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spider_007 said:
I bolive same thing goes on in Italy and Germany .. they almost slaped him .. i work 55 hour weeks on a decen job, getting payed .. still can't aford to live comforatably.
Should I make the presumption that this job doesn't include a mastery of the English language? :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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