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I was hoping some of you guys could enlighten me, in my confused mind.

For a long period of time, I haven't felt masculine at all, and today, the father of a girl I am dating made a joke about how "Un-masculine" I was, and how "masculine" the girl I am seeing is.
- the not so funny part about the joke is, that I know it is true.

In bed, she is asking for a dominant male (begging to be pulled in the hair and spanked, grabbed by the neck and so on), and I can only fell uncomfortable and like I am not "rough" enough...

While I know you cannot teach a guy "masculine", I was hoping some of you masculine guys out there could help me in my search for masculinity.

Please, don't feed me the "work out/build muscle" routine, because I am both muscular and in good shape again, so it is a state of mind, a "masculine aura" that I'm lacking, and I simply need a push in the right direction in order to get back on track!!

Thanks in advance guys, much appreciated!
 

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Take 500mg of Test E for 8 weeks with 25mg of aromasin every 2 days and report back. If this won't fix it nothing will
 

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marmel75 said:
Take 500mg of Test E for 8 weeks with 25mg of aromasin every 2 days and report back. If this won't fix it nothing will
I love you marmel. Toss in some ****ing Tren Ace and you'll **** anything that moves in the most violent way possible. Nothing like a test/tren stack or hell test/dbol aint bad either....... **** i love it.
 

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JohnChops said:
I love you marmel. Toss in some ****ing Tren Ace and you'll **** anything that moves in the most violent way possible. Nothing like a test/tren stack or hell test/dbol aint bad either....... **** i love it.
Lmao! Yeah, I have never done Tren yet but I definitely know when its tren season at the gym...you can certainly feel the tension in the air, lol

On 500 mg of test I was an absolute monster to the point my wife told me if I kept it up she didn't want me taking it because she could not deal with it anymore, lol
 

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Don't take steroids...Instead increase testosterone naturally.

Start taking ice cold baths and showers.
Expose your genitals to sun light for 20 minutes <-- This one sounds ridiculous but it's said to work.
Get 8 hours of sleep.
Lift heavy weights for an hour.
Consume the right amount of protein from meat and eggs
 

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Firstly you could be the manliest man in the world and some girls dad will still give you **** and call you girly or what ever. As for not feeling comfortable being dominant in bed that might just be you. For me I pretty much have a rape fantasy so slapping a girl, choking her, pulling her hair, pinning her down what ever just comes natural. Something about violence is sexy to me but maybe watching violent porn with spanking etc would help... though that might be a bad idea.
 

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Haha I'd stay away from the max hardcore stuff. Its pretty disturbing.
 

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Buy No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert A Glover
I've just read the first chapter & found it very interesting. I thought I was getting away from being a nice guy, but the first chapter of this book made me realise that internally I may still be Mr Nice Guy
 

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Men are being bombarded with phytoestrogens, prescription drugs, hormones in foods, in plastics and unfermented soy (tofu, soy milk). These all make men less masculine (and frogs too). Switch to distilled water or reverse osmosis (bottled fresh, not prepackaged), avoid microwaved foods, detoxify and restore your masculinity.
 

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bigneil said:
Men are being bombarded with phytoestrogens, prescription drugs, hormones in foods, in plastics and unfermented soy (tofu, soy milk). These all make men less masculine (and frogs too). Switch to distilled water or reverse osmosis (bottled fresh, not prepackaged), avoid microwaved foods, detoxify and restore your masculinity.
How should I go about heating up my food I bring at work without microwaving it?

Also, what do you think of this? http://www.nspresearchnutrition.com/tip-72-the-type-of-water-you-should-never-drink/
 

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A lot of girls looove the roughness and being dominated. Hate seks and make up seks just make them insanely horny. Believe me its not hard to do however I have to warn you dat sheet is addicting.

I used to be like you in the sense I thought it was belittling women but if it comes to the bedroom forget all that sheet, fcuk like animals.

So watching light aggressive porn is good, would give you ideas.

Here's what I recently did and liked.

The set up is know its a confirmed lay.

Second, moments leading towards the house or as soon as you meet, dont smile, dont laugh, dont make no fcuking jokes, dont talk much when you do sound like you are incredibly pissed, like youre about to start a fight, be mean, look mad. Now remember the first set up, it has to be a confirmed lay.

I walked into my bedroom, she followed.

I stood by the dresser, told her to stand a few feet from me.

Told her to turn around, I checked her out, she turned around again.

Told her to take her clothes off slowly, one piece after the other (you can leave panties on or not depending on how you feel at the moment).

Told her to get on her knees. (Your mindframe through this is show you know she'd do as you say before the words leave your mouth and if at any time she doesnt do what you say, END THE EVENING THERE AND THEN no pity fcuks and you're not relinquishing your masculinity for no reason.)

Ok so she got on her knees, I tied her hands behind her back and she gave me head while I controlled the fame.

I stood her up and lawd was she wet, it was dripping down her legs, no joke. Pushed her to the wall and fcuked her standing up.

She would never forget it and I cant wait to try it on another plate.

If you do the above, let me know how it goes however dont jump into it out of the blue. Spank her, talk dirty to her likes she's a slvt and find positions that stretches her every orgasmic vein.

Idea of it is fcuk her like she stole something.

You are masculine, you just have to bring it out.:yes:
 

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marmel75 said:
Lmao! Yeah, I have never done Tren yet but I definitely know when its tren season at the gym...you can certainly feel the tension in the air, lol

On 500 mg of test I was an absolute monster to the point my wife told me if I kept it up she didn't want me taking it because she could not deal with it anymore, lol
For my first show I was cranking about 800mg of Test and 200mg of tren ace along with mast/eq/ and winny leading up to the show. My god.... had to **** or jerk off atleast 3 times a day. My gf at the time couldn't handle it
 
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