"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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elev8r

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yeah this is girl pickup forum and what not, but i signed up just to ask this question, im good at getting girls and **** but a problem just hit me!

In high school i wasnt that social and what not, so basically i have no real high school friends...

I get into pua, being more social in university and I pretty much know everyone in the uni and everyone knows me, so im all that...

now we get 2 months off, im back home, and as for work i do internet work so i cant meet people at work, i cant meet too many ppl from the little contacts i have (mostly girls) and i dont go to school here so like many others i havent met people in this city,

now i honestly don't specifically want to hang out with just the pua type either, any ideas on how and where i can meet guys/ assemble a crew to chill and go to bars with in my town?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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iqqi

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This forum is for 25+. You must post your age to post here.

Besides that, just be open to everyone, and start conversations with everyone. Turn your filter down to its lowest setting. Everyone is good for something.
 

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ive thought pick up a hobby, or get a job anyway (even though i dont need to) or even take classes here, but all of these are counter intuitve, i mean i can work for myself and i need to work as school is out, so i dont want to take school, wondering what kind of a hobby, or what i can do to meet more friends here...
 

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You could check out local social groups for ideas. This time of year golf leagues are forming and skill level is usually not an issue it's mostly about having fun.

Check the local library and coffee shops / anywhere people hang out for ideas. There will probably be local events posted at places like that. You don't have to join clubs or anything just show up and say your interested in checking out whatever it is. Start BSing and make a few friends.

I went to an RC helicopter event last year and met some cool guys. I figured worst case I watch some neat trick flying and go home. Best case you meet a few people and make some friends.
 

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Social gatherings work best. Open up by saying your new in town and let things take over from there.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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