"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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yeah this is girl pickup forum and what not, but i signed up just to ask this question, im good at getting girls and **** but a problem just hit me!

In high school i wasnt that social and what not, so basically i have no real high school friends...

I get into pua, being more social in university and I pretty much know everyone in the uni and everyone knows me, so im all that...

now we get 2 months off, im back home, and as for work i do internet work so i cant meet people at work, i cant meet too many ppl from the little contacts i have (mostly girls) and i dont go to school here so like many others i havent met people in this city,

now i honestly don't specifically want to hang out with just the pua type either, any ideas on how and where i can meet guys/ assemble a crew to chill and go to bars with in my town?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This forum is for 25+. You must post your age to post here.

Besides that, just be open to everyone, and start conversations with everyone. Turn your filter down to its lowest setting. Everyone is good for something.
 
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ive thought pick up a hobby, or get a job anyway (even though i dont need to) or even take classes here, but all of these are counter intuitve, i mean i can work for myself and i need to work as school is out, so i dont want to take school, wondering what kind of a hobby, or what i can do to meet more friends here...
 
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You could check out local social groups for ideas. This time of year golf leagues are forming and skill level is usually not an issue it's mostly about having fun.

Check the local library and coffee shops / anywhere people hang out for ideas. There will probably be local events posted at places like that. You don't have to join clubs or anything just show up and say your interested in checking out whatever it is. Start BSing and make a few friends.

I went to an RC helicopter event last year and met some cool guys. I figured worst case I watch some neat trick flying and go home. Best case you meet a few people and make some friends.
 
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Social gatherings work best. Open up by saying your new in town and let things take over from there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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