"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah this is girl pickup forum and what not, but i signed up just to ask this question, im good at getting girls and **** but a problem just hit me!

In high school i wasnt that social and what not, so basically i have no real high school friends...

I get into pua, being more social in university and I pretty much know everyone in the uni and everyone knows me, so im all that...

now we get 2 months off, im back home, and as for work i do internet work so i cant meet people at work, i cant meet too many ppl from the little contacts i have (mostly girls) and i dont go to school here so like many others i havent met people in this city,

now i honestly don't specifically want to hang out with just the pua type either, any ideas on how and where i can meet guys/ assemble a crew to chill and go to bars with in my town?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This forum is for 25+. You must post your age to post here.

Besides that, just be open to everyone, and start conversations with everyone. Turn your filter down to its lowest setting. Everyone is good for something.
 
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ive thought pick up a hobby, or get a job anyway (even though i dont need to) or even take classes here, but all of these are counter intuitve, i mean i can work for myself and i need to work as school is out, so i dont want to take school, wondering what kind of a hobby, or what i can do to meet more friends here...
 
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You could check out local social groups for ideas. This time of year golf leagues are forming and skill level is usually not an issue it's mostly about having fun.

Check the local library and coffee shops / anywhere people hang out for ideas. There will probably be local events posted at places like that. You don't have to join clubs or anything just show up and say your interested in checking out whatever it is. Start BSing and make a few friends.

I went to an RC helicopter event last year and met some cool guys. I figured worst case I watch some neat trick flying and go home. Best case you meet a few people and make some friends.
 
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Social gatherings work best. Open up by saying your new in town and let things take over from there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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