"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not looking your age

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johnmich

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I am 17 at the mo. I dont look 17 at all and people say i look 15

All my friends all are same age but look old enough to go to the pub / clubbing in town.

Antone else got this problem and any advice?

(this is in UK so will not really apply to americans)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ill shave my pubs and you can have them for 100 bloody euros. Then you can duct tape them to your face.
 

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What do u mean "advice"....some people are skinny, some are fat, some are gay, and some look young.......theres nothing you can really do about looking young.;..except try to grow a beard or wear more mature clothing.
 

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I have that problem, but interestingly enough no girl I've ever gone for has had a problem with it.

Looking young is the same as any other "problem". If you don't act like it's a problem, it won't be one.

Just wait till you're legal or just try and sneak in with them.

Although getting carded for R movies when you're 19 gets pretty old...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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y is it that so many people think looks are all that counts? do u people even read the DJ bible? do u even skim it before posting usless crap that has already been answered 12 times that month?

so what if u look younger than u really r, thats really good when u turn 40 and look 35. work with what u have. change what u can and stop *****ing about what u cant!

where have all the good old real master DJs gone?
 

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Why can't you spell out You's, Why's and Are's?

People will take you more seriously if you actually care about grammar, spelling, and punctuation. What you wrote sounds like it was written by a 12 year old.
 

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Hahaha . Im' a lazy typist. Is that better?
I'm just trying to get people to realize that this site has been going downhill. Now don't get me wrong, theres nothing wrong with a noob or AFC or whatever joining. I just wish that they would at least SKIM over the DJB. I'll admit I havn't read all of it, probably only a half. But one thing I try not to do is post stuff that has already been posted twice a week that you could probably figure out if you acctually thought about it for 10 min. The people on here are getting into a bad habbit of having others solve their problems when they themselves could if they gave it some thought. With a small bit of knowledge , an open imagination/mind and the drive to be the very best, anyone on here could be as good as Mystery or Pook etc. Your only limit is yourself.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
Why can't you spell out You's, Why's and Are's?

People will take you more seriously if you actually care about grammar, spelling, and punctuation. What you wrote sounds like it was written by a 12 year old.
Yet sometimes theyll get mad when you point that out. I love the hipocracy of it all.
 

Brian20o2

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Yet sometimes theyll get mad when you point that out. I love the hipocracy of it all.
Good thing this isn't and english class forum. Because you should have wrote "they'll get"
:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol when your old you want to look young when your young you want to look old ahahaha

let your facial hair grow if it doesnt well your stuffed arent ya? go slash your wrists mate

jk do not do that...

why do you want to look older exactly? do you want to get the same age-older looking girls? do you want to get into bars or clubs?
 
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