"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not looking your age

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johnmich

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I am 17 at the mo. I dont look 17 at all and people say i look 15

All my friends all are same age but look old enough to go to the pub / clubbing in town.

Antone else got this problem and any advice?

(this is in UK so will not really apply to americans)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ill shave my pubs and you can have them for 100 bloody euros. Then you can duct tape them to your face.
 

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What do u mean "advice"....some people are skinny, some are fat, some are gay, and some look young.......theres nothing you can really do about looking young.;..except try to grow a beard or wear more mature clothing.
 

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I have that problem, but interestingly enough no girl I've ever gone for has had a problem with it.

Looking young is the same as any other "problem". If you don't act like it's a problem, it won't be one.

Just wait till you're legal or just try and sneak in with them.

Although getting carded for R movies when you're 19 gets pretty old...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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y is it that so many people think looks are all that counts? do u people even read the DJ bible? do u even skim it before posting usless crap that has already been answered 12 times that month?

so what if u look younger than u really r, thats really good when u turn 40 and look 35. work with what u have. change what u can and stop *****ing about what u cant!

where have all the good old real master DJs gone?
 

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Why can't you spell out You's, Why's and Are's?

People will take you more seriously if you actually care about grammar, spelling, and punctuation. What you wrote sounds like it was written by a 12 year old.
 

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Hahaha . Im' a lazy typist. Is that better?
I'm just trying to get people to realize that this site has been going downhill. Now don't get me wrong, theres nothing wrong with a noob or AFC or whatever joining. I just wish that they would at least SKIM over the DJB. I'll admit I havn't read all of it, probably only a half. But one thing I try not to do is post stuff that has already been posted twice a week that you could probably figure out if you acctually thought about it for 10 min. The people on here are getting into a bad habbit of having others solve their problems when they themselves could if they gave it some thought. With a small bit of knowledge , an open imagination/mind and the drive to be the very best, anyone on here could be as good as Mystery or Pook etc. Your only limit is yourself.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
Why can't you spell out You's, Why's and Are's?

People will take you more seriously if you actually care about grammar, spelling, and punctuation. What you wrote sounds like it was written by a 12 year old.
Yet sometimes theyll get mad when you point that out. I love the hipocracy of it all.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Yet sometimes theyll get mad when you point that out. I love the hipocracy of it all.
Good thing this isn't and english class forum. Because you should have wrote "they'll get"
:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lol when your old you want to look young when your young you want to look old ahahaha

let your facial hair grow if it doesnt well your stuffed arent ya? go slash your wrists mate

jk do not do that...

why do you want to look older exactly? do you want to get the same age-older looking girls? do you want to get into bars or clubs?
 
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