Not "in the mood" when in the field

[Huffman]

Heya. So from time to time I read some inspiring posts, or just take some time to reflect on myself. Usually, this leads to me being extremely PUMPED, energetic, etc. Like I am right now. It's already late but I feel like if I had a girl with me right now there's NO WAY I wouldn't get her.
Then I think "Yeah man this is it! Woah! Starting tomorrow, I'm gonna kick some major ass again!"
But on the next day, the drive is gone and my mood is pretty low again. I have to make a real effort to talk to even girls and it just shows.

Anyone experience the same thing? What did you do?

 

[BongDuy]

you just gotta try. force yourself, thats what i do. think to yourself " you miss 100% opportunities you don't take "

You've got to want it

 

[I'm in the Mood]

No, don't force yourself! That would make you look awkward.

I can think of a few ways that I can wake myself up to go out and socialize.
-Morning runs, well really exercise in general. Get your body moving and get your flow going.
-Coffee helps a lot. This morning I had a huge headache and couldn't keep my eyes open, but after some caffeine, your mind starts making more connections and you usually talk more.
-Going out with friends is HUGE. You're already in a comfort zone of your own when you chill with friends and nothing can break this comfort. You become way more confident and outgoing when you're with friends, and you can use this to your advantage if you carry this feeling over to a girl that you approach while you're out and about.
-Listen to music, bring your ipod with you when you go out and listen to your favorite songs. This works for me every time.
-Just relax and keep good posture, stand up tall. Relaxing is one of the most important things wherever you go. You are not only in the mood then, but you create a calm environment around you and other people pick up on your mood.

I had to answer this thread cause of my sn, lol

 

[WhtRbt]

You have to go out whether you feel like it or not. Next time you are in that 'low mood' and feeling like ****e with no motivation, that's when you go out. By the time you're halfway to the club you'll be feeling way better already.

 

[Jblitz59]

don't masterbate for a week straight or 2 weeks straight. you become more refreshed and awake and on ur A game. Prove me wrong if you disagree

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

It happens to everyone. Most of the time when in clubs , im not in state.

But is that an excuse to chode around ?

Approaching puts me in state alot. Girls breathing to my ear trying to impress me puts me on state. Girls talking all sexy to me puts me in state.

Alcohol too .

 

[Huffman]

Yeah thanks for the heads-up... you're right of course, get some nuts and just go in there.
Everybody knows it, but my mind keeps making up excuses.

As for the masturbation thing, been there done that, it gives you a little boost, but ultimately you still gotta do the work yourself... that's what it always boils down to

 

[Mr. Bond]

This is something I also experience if I do nothing about it. However, I've figured out a couple things that always put me in a better state of mind every day. Experiment and see what works for you. Here's what I do.

First of all, when I wake up, I get some food and get on this website and read some material. I tend to ignore the posts on "this technique" and "that technique." I read inner game posts about being the best man you can be. If you haven't spent a lot of time on the DJ Bible, check it out at the bottom of this page. The 5 week reading guide is excellent.

Secondly, I get some exercise every day. I lift hard at the gym, I ask the huge guys what they're doing to get that way, I flirt with the girls who work at the gym. The last thing I do is run 1.5 miles. Not a marathon, but it gets my blood pumping.

Third, I take care of what needs to be done during that day. We all have things we can put off until tomorrow - don't do it. It feels much better to think to yourself that you're doing the right thing and getting your sh*t accomplished. You don't have something hanging over your head, so you're free to be in a better mood. Plus, you can rest assured that you have had a productive day. That's something to feel good about, no?

Good luck!