"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not Giving a Fu*K doesnt mean dressing like a schmuk

RoeCyris

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ok, i'm tired of this not being clearified for people. You can not give a fu*k about how you look and still not look like a complete schmuk.

HAIR
Not giving a fu*k = Washing hair but not combing after drying
Looking like a schmuk = not even cleaning hair and just waking up and walking out the door.

DRESS
- CLEAN YOUR CLOTHS! Wrinkled is in but dirty is NEVER in. Even if you choose to wear whatever the hell you want you should be cleaning it as well. If you wear the same thing every day then wash it every night. You know, you dont even have to hang or fold alot of things b/c as i said wrinkled is in. People pay LOTS of $$$ to look like they grabbed something up off the floor, i can do that for free by cleaning, drying a shirt and then leaving in the drying for a lil bit.

SKIN
- This should be obvious but you should be cleaning yourself daily. Maybe you use some generic cheap ass soap but you need to be using SOMETHING.



Ok thats really it for right now but keep this general idea in mind: I may not give a **** but i dont have to be a schmuk about it.



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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Julian

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lol i like this thread.
 

Brad324

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I personally think not giving a fu*k should show in your personality, not in your appearance. I don't see women saying "wow, I just LOVE how his clothes are wrinkled - he just doesn't care! I want him!" Women don't want guys because of crap like this, they want them despite it.
 

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So youre saying wrinkled clothes are in??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not giving a f*ck means not giving a f*ck what OTHER people think. Your appearance projects what you think of YOURSELF. When I look in the mirror I expect to see a good looking, stylish, cool guy, and I will dress the part because that's how I see myself.
 

Don Juanabbe

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Originally posted by wolfie
Not giving a f*ck means not giving a f*ck what OTHER people think. Your appearance projects what you think of YOURSELF. When I look in the mirror I expect to see a good looking, stylish, cool guy, and I will dress the part because that's how I see myself.
Yep.
 
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