"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not Giving a Fu*K doesnt mean dressing like a schmuk

RoeCyris

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ok, i'm tired of this not being clearified for people. You can not give a fu*k about how you look and still not look like a complete schmuk.

HAIR
Not giving a fu*k = Washing hair but not combing after drying
Looking like a schmuk = not even cleaning hair and just waking up and walking out the door.

DRESS
- CLEAN YOUR CLOTHS! Wrinkled is in but dirty is NEVER in. Even if you choose to wear whatever the hell you want you should be cleaning it as well. If you wear the same thing every day then wash it every night. You know, you dont even have to hang or fold alot of things b/c as i said wrinkled is in. People pay LOTS of $$$ to look like they grabbed something up off the floor, i can do that for free by cleaning, drying a shirt and then leaving in the drying for a lil bit.

SKIN
- This should be obvious but you should be cleaning yourself daily. Maybe you use some generic cheap ass soap but you need to be using SOMETHING.



Ok thats really it for right now but keep this general idea in mind: I may not give a **** but i dont have to be a schmuk about it.



Thank you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julian

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lol i like this thread.
 

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I personally think not giving a fu*k should show in your personality, not in your appearance. I don't see women saying "wow, I just LOVE how his clothes are wrinkled - he just doesn't care! I want him!" Women don't want guys because of crap like this, they want them despite it.
 

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So youre saying wrinkled clothes are in??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not giving a f*ck means not giving a f*ck what OTHER people think. Your appearance projects what you think of YOURSELF. When I look in the mirror I expect to see a good looking, stylish, cool guy, and I will dress the part because that's how I see myself.
 

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Originally posted by wolfie
Not giving a f*ck means not giving a f*ck what OTHER people think. Your appearance projects what you think of YOURSELF. When I look in the mirror I expect to see a good looking, stylish, cool guy, and I will dress the part because that's how I see myself.
Yep.
 
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