"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not Giving a Fu*K doesnt mean dressing like a schmuk

RoeCyris

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ok, i'm tired of this not being clearified for people. You can not give a fu*k about how you look and still not look like a complete schmuk.

HAIR
Not giving a fu*k = Washing hair but not combing after drying
Looking like a schmuk = not even cleaning hair and just waking up and walking out the door.

DRESS
- CLEAN YOUR CLOTHS! Wrinkled is in but dirty is NEVER in. Even if you choose to wear whatever the hell you want you should be cleaning it as well. If you wear the same thing every day then wash it every night. You know, you dont even have to hang or fold alot of things b/c as i said wrinkled is in. People pay LOTS of $$$ to look like they grabbed something up off the floor, i can do that for free by cleaning, drying a shirt and then leaving in the drying for a lil bit.

SKIN
- This should be obvious but you should be cleaning yourself daily. Maybe you use some generic cheap ass soap but you need to be using SOMETHING.



Ok thats really it for right now but keep this general idea in mind: I may not give a **** but i dont have to be a schmuk about it.



Thank you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol i like this thread.
 

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I personally think not giving a fu*k should show in your personality, not in your appearance. I don't see women saying "wow, I just LOVE how his clothes are wrinkled - he just doesn't care! I want him!" Women don't want guys because of crap like this, they want them despite it.
 

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So youre saying wrinkled clothes are in??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not giving a f*ck means not giving a f*ck what OTHER people think. Your appearance projects what you think of YOURSELF. When I look in the mirror I expect to see a good looking, stylish, cool guy, and I will dress the part because that's how I see myself.
 

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Originally posted by wolfie
Not giving a f*ck means not giving a f*ck what OTHER people think. Your appearance projects what you think of YOURSELF. When I look in the mirror I expect to see a good looking, stylish, cool guy, and I will dress the part because that's how I see myself.
Yep.
 
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