"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not Giving a Fu*K doesnt mean dressing like a schmuk

RoeCyris

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ok, i'm tired of this not being clearified for people. You can not give a fu*k about how you look and still not look like a complete schmuk.

HAIR
Not giving a fu*k = Washing hair but not combing after drying
Looking like a schmuk = not even cleaning hair and just waking up and walking out the door.

DRESS
- CLEAN YOUR CLOTHS! Wrinkled is in but dirty is NEVER in. Even if you choose to wear whatever the hell you want you should be cleaning it as well. If you wear the same thing every day then wash it every night. You know, you dont even have to hang or fold alot of things b/c as i said wrinkled is in. People pay LOTS of $$$ to look like they grabbed something up off the floor, i can do that for free by cleaning, drying a shirt and then leaving in the drying for a lil bit.

SKIN
- This should be obvious but you should be cleaning yourself daily. Maybe you use some generic cheap ass soap but you need to be using SOMETHING.



Ok thats really it for right now but keep this general idea in mind: I may not give a **** but i dont have to be a schmuk about it.



Thank you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lol i like this thread.
 

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I personally think not giving a fu*k should show in your personality, not in your appearance. I don't see women saying "wow, I just LOVE how his clothes are wrinkled - he just doesn't care! I want him!" Women don't want guys because of crap like this, they want them despite it.
 

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So youre saying wrinkled clothes are in??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not giving a f*ck means not giving a f*ck what OTHER people think. Your appearance projects what you think of YOURSELF. When I look in the mirror I expect to see a good looking, stylish, cool guy, and I will dress the part because that's how I see myself.
 

Don Juanabbe

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Originally posted by wolfie
Not giving a f*ck means not giving a f*ck what OTHER people think. Your appearance projects what you think of YOURSELF. When I look in the mirror I expect to see a good looking, stylish, cool guy, and I will dress the part because that's how I see myself.
Yep.
 
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