"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not Getting Setup

jaymbrs

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Apparently it’s because my status and looks should be good enough to find someone on my own. That’s what 2 people told me when I told them to introduce me to their female friends. They’re technically not wrong but they don’t know how fuked up the game is right now though. And finding a decent chick is tough.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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kavi

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You dont wanna get setup. Lots of opportunities to interact with women out there if you want to. No one can guarantee you anything hence you need to be able to enjoy talking and interacting with women you like. You can meet them in many places but you have to play the 'long game' although that can be quite easy if you interact with more than 1 girl, make things easy for yourself, and just let it come to you instead of trying to 'make it happen'. It obviously takes longer but you are not suffering in the process so its actually much easier.
 

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Why do you want to get set up for? That's very passive thinking on your part. It sounds like you are putting sex above self-respect.
 

jaymbrs

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You dont wanna get setup. Lots of opportunities to interact with women out there if you want to. No one can guarantee you anything hence you need to be able to enjoy talking and interacting with women you like. You can meet them in many places but you have to play the 'long game' although that can be quite easy if you interact with more than 1 girl, make things easy for yourself, and just let it come to you instead of trying to 'make it happen'. It obviously takes longer but you are not suffering in the process so its actually much easier.
I'm doing that as well. But I'm referring to an attractive friend or relative of someone I know who I find attractive and would like to talk to.
Why do you want to get set up for? That's very passive thinking on your part. It sounds like you are putting sex above self-respect.
WTF? What in the world is wrong with asking to be introduced to someone?
 
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