Apparently it’s because my status and looks should be good enough to find someone on my own. That’s what 2 people told me when I told them to introduce me to their female friends. They’re technically not wrong but they don’t know how fuked up the game is right now though. And finding a decent chick is tough.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Not Getting Setup
- Thread starter jaymbrs
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You dont wanna get setup. Lots of opportunities to interact with women out there if you want to. No one can guarantee you anything hence you need to be able to enjoy talking and interacting with women you like. You can meet them in many places but you have to play the 'long game' although that can be quite easy if you interact with more than 1 girl, make things easy for yourself, and just let it come to you instead of trying to 'make it happen'. It obviously takes longer but you are not suffering in the process so its actually much easier.
I'm doing that as well. But I'm referring to an attractive friend or relative of someone I know who I find attractive and would like to talk to.
WTF? What in the world is wrong with asking to be introduced to someone?