Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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7 inches and you complain about your size?

Mine is a slightly above 6 when working yet looks like Im just out of cold water when it's resting.

If it wasnt for me getting erections within microseconds, that would be a real problem.
It's different when you're in the black community (by choice) and fvck girls that fvck lot's of fvck black men. The media has warped my brain. The black d!cks I've seen in person aren't anything special.

I have a friend that said her bf hurts when they fvck but he beat her and she still went running back. Just makes me think they want that pummeling. It's all on me and I need to do more shadow work on my psyche, I get that.

I still want a huger d!ck though. D!ck is power.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So true, an 18 year old from work a few years ago, smashed her and she took it all no complaints, I recorded it all and it's still top 2 self made porn



I tried the legs back thing with my girl she says it's too deep. This is a girl who has banged 30 black dudes. I'm smashing away and feeling insulted she says it hurts because of the stereotype I'm assuming she's taken much bigger. You guys may know I went down her phone couple month ago. Her friend showed her a d!ck pick of a massive dong and she said that's the biggest she'd seen, it wasn't even that big maybe 8 inch.

I actually want more thrust in thrust out motion, which a shorter penis can never provide, at my length it doesn't feel long enough for what I want. I think I agree with the guy above, too much porn. However, I quit that a year ago, maybe lasting effects. Maybe porn has long-lasting psychiatric effects that never leave us. It makes sense, "what has been see cannot be unseen" kinda thing.



Hi Scaramouche, scaramouche can you do the fandango?
The whole black d!ck thing is way overblown. On average they are no bigger or smaller than other races.
 

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It's different when you're in the black community (by choice) and fvck girls that fvck lot's of fvck black men. The media has warped my brain. The black d!cks I've seen in person aren't anything special.

I have a friend that said her bf hurts when they fvck but he beat her and she still went running back. Just makes me think they want that pummeling. It's all on me and I need to do more shadow work on my psyche, I get that.

I still want a huger d!ck though. D!ck is power.
Cant to much to harm her with a bigger d1ck but you can still join a kick boxing class.
 

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some resources on technique:
https://medium.com/sexography/3-thi...thrusting-on-behalf-of-all-women-599f45de2e0d


 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At 7 inches I still feel less than. I know I'm above average, I'm not even talking girth here.

I'm ind of wanting women to be in pain when I fvck them, not to cause pain, but because pain equals size.

I do cause some pain, but I know women are taking bigger d!cks than me.

I'm 33 years old and only had these thoughts recently.
I've had the same issue. I'm a bit over 8, and it's best to make sure they are nice and wet before the thrust. Personally, when compared to porn stars though, I look, quite small.
 

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8 centimeters is considered big? No? Shyt, now I know why she left me!
 

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Hi Murk,
Can I do the Fandango?....Oh Man you're thinking of Scarramucci LOL.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Realize that women can push a baby through that hole and forget about your size. The hole adapts to each man …
Unless the size is too small. Too small is anything bellow 14 cm, which is 5.5 inches.

At 7 inches I still feel less than
In woman world 7 inches or 18 cm is kind of average -- not above average. The wow factor for them is anything 18 cm and above. For example 20 cm, or 24. Your junk they just take, no matter the girth, and those bigger once they take and they feel how it bumbs in the back of them. You are correct, you are kind of small, but there is nothing you can do about it.
 

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There's always vacuum attachments
 

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In the interest of openness and the topic of the thread I'm about 7.5 inches, plus a 6mm gauge 1 inch diameter/10mm
captive ball Prince Albert piercing which probably gets me to about 8. Apparently, so I'm told, they can really feel the
piercing... My wife wasn't comfortable in certain positions if I went balls deep with it but she was pretty small down there.
Even though I had it pierced some 20 years ago, it wasn't ever inside anybody other than my wife so its hard to know how
well it would be received, pardon the pun, elsewhere.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OP they want stamina and want it rough. Treat her like it.
Yup it’s amazing how many women are initially shocked by rougher treatment but then they come harder than ever before and say things like “no one has ever done that before, and I thought always it wasn’t something I’d like but omg I love it”.

Most guys are clueless and even if they try to be rougher they cannot pull it off because it takes care and attention to detail to do - when to slow down when to crank it up when to stop.
 
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Ideal is to be Borderline OMG or OMG.
The jewellery has given me that response just about every time anyone's laid eyes on it. :up:
 
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