"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not feeling like much of a DJ. :(

LinkinParkROX

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This is weird guys. I've got the whole DJ mindset/attitude for like 90% of the days. The other 10%, I feel like shit. I don't know why, I just feel "off". I'm not my usual ****y, funny, crazyass self. I look for what's wrong, what's causing me to feel this way, but it seems like nothing's wrong at all, everything's fine. I just feel low, not content, plus I notice a far lesser amount of self love when compared to other days. Help, please?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Allurre

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Everyone's going to go through times when they are deflated. Your energy tank needs refueling bro. Don't expect yourself to always be in the mood, your nature of your body can't follow.

It's like work. Work 24 hours straight and you will eventually go mind fried and burn out.
 

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Dude when this happens just get piss drunk lol. The liquor fuel always increases my dj skills lol.

Austin
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thing is that i am too often on this board. In the beginning it was, opened doors for me, but now i am overloaded with all the information from here. Don't know where to start with girls and overanalyze everything.

It sucks
 

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Yeah that happens sometimes. If you're okay one day and the next day your situation is the same but you're feeling different, it may be a sort of chemical inbalance. But even if it is just your chemistry, you don't have to be "Damn my body again, this is bad"- you can control a good deal of it. You can deal with that- For example if I am feeling depressed, I will talk to myself in a happier tone, or if I'm feeling anxious (With reason or without a reason- that can happen too sometimes) it helps A LOT to talk to yourself confidently. If you do make that effort it WILL pay off, you will feel cool with yourself and healthier! Give it a shot it may be that it's the "perfect" fix, as it is for me! :up:
 
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