"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not feeling like much of a DJ. :(

LinkinParkROX

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This is weird guys. I've got the whole DJ mindset/attitude for like 90% of the days. The other 10%, I feel like shit. I don't know why, I just feel "off". I'm not my usual ****y, funny, crazyass self. I look for what's wrong, what's causing me to feel this way, but it seems like nothing's wrong at all, everything's fine. I just feel low, not content, plus I notice a far lesser amount of self love when compared to other days. Help, please?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Allurre

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Everyone's going to go through times when they are deflated. Your energy tank needs refueling bro. Don't expect yourself to always be in the mood, your nature of your body can't follow.

It's like work. Work 24 hours straight and you will eventually go mind fried and burn out.
 

GrimPhallic

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Dude when this happens just get piss drunk lol. The liquor fuel always increases my dj skills lol.

Austin
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thing is that i am too often on this board. In the beginning it was, opened doors for me, but now i am overloaded with all the information from here. Don't know where to start with girls and overanalyze everything.

It sucks
 

Groovy

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Yeah that happens sometimes. If you're okay one day and the next day your situation is the same but you're feeling different, it may be a sort of chemical inbalance. But even if it is just your chemistry, you don't have to be "Damn my body again, this is bad"- you can control a good deal of it. You can deal with that- For example if I am feeling depressed, I will talk to myself in a happier tone, or if I'm feeling anxious (With reason or without a reason- that can happen too sometimes) it helps A LOT to talk to yourself confidently. If you do make that effort it WILL pay off, you will feel cool with yourself and healthier! Give it a shot it may be that it's the "perfect" fix, as it is for me! :up:
 
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