"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not feeling like much of a DJ. :(

LinkinParkROX

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This is weird guys. I've got the whole DJ mindset/attitude for like 90% of the days. The other 10%, I feel like shit. I don't know why, I just feel "off". I'm not my usual ****y, funny, crazyass self. I look for what's wrong, what's causing me to feel this way, but it seems like nothing's wrong at all, everything's fine. I just feel low, not content, plus I notice a far lesser amount of self love when compared to other days. Help, please?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Allurre

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Everyone's going to go through times when they are deflated. Your energy tank needs refueling bro. Don't expect yourself to always be in the mood, your nature of your body can't follow.

It's like work. Work 24 hours straight and you will eventually go mind fried and burn out.
 

GrimPhallic

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Dude when this happens just get piss drunk lol. The liquor fuel always increases my dj skills lol.

Austin
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thing is that i am too often on this board. In the beginning it was, opened doors for me, but now i am overloaded with all the information from here. Don't know where to start with girls and overanalyze everything.

It sucks
 

Groovy

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Yeah that happens sometimes. If you're okay one day and the next day your situation is the same but you're feeling different, it may be a sort of chemical inbalance. But even if it is just your chemistry, you don't have to be "Damn my body again, this is bad"- you can control a good deal of it. You can deal with that- For example if I am feeling depressed, I will talk to myself in a happier tone, or if I'm feeling anxious (With reason or without a reason- that can happen too sometimes) it helps A LOT to talk to yourself confidently. If you do make that effort it WILL pay off, you will feel cool with yourself and healthier! Give it a shot it may be that it's the "perfect" fix, as it is for me! :up:
 
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