"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Not being myself

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In this current LTR, atm im feeling like the *****, im not being myself, always trying not "upset" her feelings , putting her in a pedestal and not calling her for her bull****, trying to get her approval, acting like a AFC you name it.

Im ashamed of myself and its all my fault.

**** it im nobody´s *****, this **** gotta stop now.

The funny part is all my fault, cant blame no one.

I wanted to share this with you guys, cause i want to look back and read this post everytime time i have a second tought and act like a AFC.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You can't change while you're in LTR. Ditch her.


She's a bad selection you've made in the first place. You selected her out of convinience, not because she's like the best thing you've met. You wouldn't know what's best, you haven't tried searching. Dump her for your own good. Study the game. Marry the game. Let it be the only LTR in your life.
 
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ah, reminds me of my highschool days. I was aware of how things should be done (through this site of course) yet, I never went through with my newfound beliefs until I really did some work on my behaviour and had very little problems after that.

Here's the thing. If you think she's worth it, stay with her, but don't act like a puss again. If she leaves you, so be it, but either way you need to get your act together. If you two are past the point of no return, it's not the end of the world. There's many girls out there. Just don't let yourself screw it up again ya know?
 
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