"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not being myself

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In this current LTR, atm im feeling like the *****, im not being myself, always trying not "upset" her feelings , putting her in a pedestal and not calling her for her bull****, trying to get her approval, acting like a AFC you name it.

Im ashamed of myself and its all my fault.

**** it im nobody´s *****, this **** gotta stop now.

The funny part is all my fault, cant blame no one.

I wanted to share this with you guys, cause i want to look back and read this post everytime time i have a second tought and act like a AFC.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You can't change while you're in LTR. Ditch her.


She's a bad selection you've made in the first place. You selected her out of convinience, not because she's like the best thing you've met. You wouldn't know what's best, you haven't tried searching. Dump her for your own good. Study the game. Marry the game. Let it be the only LTR in your life.
 
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ah, reminds me of my highschool days. I was aware of how things should be done (through this site of course) yet, I never went through with my newfound beliefs until I really did some work on my behaviour and had very little problems after that.

Here's the thing. If you think she's worth it, stay with her, but don't act like a puss again. If she leaves you, so be it, but either way you need to get your act together. If you two are past the point of no return, it's not the end of the world. There's many girls out there. Just don't let yourself screw it up again ya know?
 
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