"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Not being myself

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In this current LTR, atm im feeling like the *****, im not being myself, always trying not "upset" her feelings , putting her in a pedestal and not calling her for her bull****, trying to get her approval, acting like a AFC you name it.

Im ashamed of myself and its all my fault.

**** it im nobody´s *****, this **** gotta stop now.

The funny part is all my fault, cant blame no one.

I wanted to share this with you guys, cause i want to look back and read this post everytime time i have a second tought and act like a AFC.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You can't change while you're in LTR. Ditch her.


She's a bad selection you've made in the first place. You selected her out of convinience, not because she's like the best thing you've met. You wouldn't know what's best, you haven't tried searching. Dump her for your own good. Study the game. Marry the game. Let it be the only LTR in your life.
 
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ah, reminds me of my highschool days. I was aware of how things should be done (through this site of course) yet, I never went through with my newfound beliefs until I really did some work on my behaviour and had very little problems after that.

Here's the thing. If you think she's worth it, stay with her, but don't act like a puss again. If she leaves you, so be it, but either way you need to get your act together. If you two are past the point of no return, it's not the end of the world. There's many girls out there. Just don't let yourself screw it up again ya know?
 
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